Into the Wild with Alexander Supertramp

If you happen to know this guy, you might say that he’s a psycho and suicidal like most of the things people say about him and his death.  Into the Wild is a long article written by Jon Kraukauerthat was later on published as a book. It’s a real life tale about a young man named Christopher McCandless or Alexander Supertramp (as he called himself) who left his very fortunate life and hitchhiked to Alaska. He walked alone into the wilderness of Mt. McKinley and was found dead on August 1992.

The 1st TRC Conference Specially Made for Singles

Just to make it clear, this is not a speed dating event.

This is a Financial Conference for Singles (meaning not yet married, regardless of current relationship status) spearheaded by Dr. Didoy Lubaton and his wife, Mayi Lubaton, of the Truly Rich Club (TRC).  The main goal of this conference is to help people diagnose, assess their current financial health status, and find the solutions to take charge of the future.

A Storm is an Opportunity

Sunday is running day, but a storm hit the country for almost a week now. Going outside to sneak in a few miles of running is impossible. It is unsafe. I missed my marathon training and it felt terrible. I had no option at this time of the day, but to sleep more. It was past 3 in the morning and the wind is whipping almost everything it could destroy.

Lessons from a Dangerous Book: The Art of Non-Conformity

Nonconformist – a person who does not behave the way most people behave; someone who does not conform to a generally accepted pattern of thought or action. (Merriam-Webster)

“Unreasonable,” “unrealistic,” and “impractical” are words used to marginalize a person or idea that fails to conform with conventionally expected standards. (Chris Guillebeau, author of The Art of Non-Conformity)

These words doesn’t sound appealing, right? The use of the prefixes “un” and “im” gives them a negative connotation. Would you want to be described as such? For most people, probably not. If you’re definitely sure that you wouldn’t want to be associated with these types of people, I suggest you stop reading this article. Time is precious; I wouldn’t want to waste yours. But…

If you’ve ever thought, “There must be more to life than this,” The Art of Non-Conformity is for you.“

5 Reasons Why You Should Date a Strong and Independent Woman

I’ve read a few articles about feminine traits men look for in a partner, and the words “successful,” “go-getter,” and “meticulous” are not on the list of most men. They say that men want from their girlfriend what they can’t get from their business associates – warmth and affection. (Well, that’s why it’s called “business,” right?) I don’t intend to argue with any man here. I would just like to say that there’s more to those women that meets the eye.

Here are some of the reasons why men should consider dating a strong and independent woman:

1. She is not clingy.

Do I need to say more? Would you want someone to bug you 24/7 who couldn’t seem to do things on her own without your help? You are a boyfriend – not a bodyguard, driver, or hero. Included in the top reasons for break-up these days is (according to men) the girlfriend being too “needy.” Do you agree?

2. You can still have your boys’ night out.

It’s because she has her own life. She has a long list of things to do, and she also needs to have coffee time or shopping day with the girls! Not being with you gives her the time to do those things and for her to miss you too.

3. She doesn’t really NEED you.

Yep, you read it right! She’s independent and responsible. She can stand on her own feet. But why would she still spend time with you if that’s the case? Simple – she WANTS you. Believe me, if a strong and independent woman would choose to be with you despite her busy schedule, boy you’re special. (I bet you’re smiling now!)

Try to do things for her even if she’d tell you she can manage and it’s no big deal. Behind the confident and tough facade lies a woman – soft at the core, wanting to be taken cared of. So insist! But don’t be too pushy; it can get annoying.

4. It’s okay to be weak around her.

Men are wired not to be emotional and be in control all the time. With a strong and independent woman, you wouldn’t need to pretend that you can handle everything. You don’t have to hold your tears back. She can handle it. And like you, she feels good when she’s able to help her man. She is not always the damsel in distress; she can also be princess charming!

5. It would lessen your worries.

She can basically take care of herself, so you can chill and take pride that your girl is a kick-ass!

To the guys reading this, move past those feelings of intimidation. Get out dear and find yourself a strong independent woman! You won’t regret it, unless you’re too weak to handle them. 🙂

Me Against My Inner Demons

That one phone call that didn’t come turned my blue sky into gray. I know that I can’t win at everything, so I must be okay. I live on.

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Every morning, I buy more time in bed to do nonsense things like checking my phone ad staring at the darkness. More staring into nothingness happens in the bathroom and then in my room, while I’m deciding what to wear. My mother will then ask, “what do you want to eat for breakfast?”. I would just answer, “whatever is available.” I must have given her a headache. I really don’t know what I want to eat or if I even want to eat. Any food tastes nothing in my mouth. What a way to start my day.

As I leave the house, I practice to smile. I’m fast approaching the gates to the world stage; the place where everyone seems to be endlessly moving randomly without a clear path or direction. This is a good distraction, I thought. But I am no good actor. The misery is surfacing like a bleeding cut underneath, getting my clothes stained. It made me stop in the middle of these busy bees; as I realized today, the calendar month had already changed.

“Where am I now?” I know the answer for sure, but I refuse to hear me say it. And then, I buried my face into my hands.

I am sad. I am mad. I get lazy. I am a procrastinator. I waste the precious times. I just lie down and stare at the ceiling. I become that person I hate talking to. I can hear myself whining. I don’t want to talk with anyone. I want to hide underground forever. I am frustrated. I want to quit. Mediocrity is calling my name saying, “raise the white flag, embrace me now!”

I had been here many times, having this fight against my inner demons; those thoughts that are telling me I’m no good. I cannot do it. I cannot make it. And every time I come across this path, it seems like I still don’t know what to do. I am close to breaking down. As much as I am telling the world that I am exceptional, being human is one fact that I can’t escape from. I get tired and I lose grip on that rope of hope. It’s a daily battle and some days I get beaten.

There seems to be no choice, for me and for all of us. As long as we live, we have to wrestle down this beast inside our heads. If not, then we are dead. We may be breathing air, but our being is lifeless. We’d stop dreaming and looking forward to tomorrow. There’s even no logic in that, if you’d say that emotions should be taken away.

I hate where I am right now, but I accept that this will always be part of the routine. The monster is winning this time and it has to be this way for now, as I patiently wait for the wind to change and favor me. My dreams may or may not be for me. Who knows exactly? In this game called life, I may lose. To keep on trying and to at least give it a good fight, is where at least I want to win.

Have you sometimes felt like giving up? What keeps you going though it’s hurting?